Comments for Reason-4-Smile Weblog http://www.reason4smile.com Strange into Strength Sun, 18 Dec 2011 22:29:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 Comment on Dating Introvert: Men’s not-to-do list in getting a date by spencer http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/02/21/dating-introvert-what-men-should-not-do-to-get-a-date/comment-page-1/#comment-16364 spencer Sun, 18 Dec 2011 22:29:04 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/02/21/dating-introvert-what-men-should-not-do-to-get-a-date/#comment-16364 "Do not become another person" hardly belongs in a list full of suggestions to change one's personality and behavior to essentially imitate an extrovert. Also - if a woman requires this, she is shallow and not worth pursuit. “Do not become another person” hardly belongs in a list full of suggestions to change one’s personality and behavior to essentially imitate an extrovert.

Also – if a woman requires this, she is shallow and not worth pursuit.

]]> Comment on Habitudes #1: The Art of Self-Leadership by Dr Tim Elmore by Andrew Riley http://www.reason4smile.com/2009/01/21/habitudes-1-the-art-of-self-leadership/comment-page-1/#comment-16363 Andrew Riley Mon, 12 Dec 2011 03:30:56 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/?p=860#comment-16363 I love the principles these books teach. I am in a class in my university that went through a bunch of them (I gave a presentation on "The Calcutta Paradox," about humility). I haven't read them as much as I should have, because the class is very discussion oriented and that's how I learn best. However, I plan on reading through them soon. :) God bless! I love the principles these books teach. I am in a class in my university that went through a bunch of them (I gave a presentation on “The Calcutta Paradox,” about humility). I haven’t read them as much as I should have, because the class is very discussion oriented and that’s how I learn best. However, I plan on reading through them soon. :)
God bless!

]]> Comment on How to stay focused: The “people-collector” style by Dawn allen http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/06/25/how-to-stay-focused-with-people-collector-mindset/comment-page-1/#comment-16362 Dawn allen Mon, 28 Nov 2011 22:53:53 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/?p=390#comment-16362 Robert, Has it ever occurred to you that maybe people don't want to be collected? I met a girl once who exhibited the exact same traits you described. She would find someone who was different and practically never leave their side and try her hardest to learn everything about them and why they were different. She would get between them and their real friends, and seeing as she was charming and popular. Then she would spot someone who was different in a different way and do exactly the same thing to them. In her mind she had successfully added a new person to her collection and the person she collected would be hurt and confused. People collecting is a very bad idea. You should try to actually form meaningful friendships with those around you. Robert,
Has it ever occurred to you that maybe people don’t want to be collected? I met a girl once who exhibited the exact same traits you described. She would find someone who was different and practically never leave their side and try her hardest to learn everything about them and why they were different. She would get between them and their real friends, and seeing as she was charming and popular. Then she would spot someone who was different in a different way and do exactly the same thing to them. In her mind she had successfully added a new person to her collection and the person she collected would be hurt and confused. People collecting is a very bad idea. You should try to actually form meaningful friendships with those around you.

]]> Comment on From blogging to public speaking by Brian McMullen http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/08/21/from-blogging-to-public-speaking/comment-page-1/#comment-16361 Brian McMullen Wed, 02 Nov 2011 03:53:59 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/?p=547#comment-16361 Yes, blogging is a relaxing way to release the stress and tension in your mind through your writing. To have your blog be popular or be indexed you should do SEO stuffs just like what @Michelle have mentioned. Yes, blogging is a relaxing way to release the stress and tension in your mind through your writing. To have your blog be popular or be indexed you should do SEO stuffs just like what @Michelle have mentioned.

]]> Comment on From blogging to public speaking by Michelle http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/08/21/from-blogging-to-public-speaking/comment-page-1/#comment-16360 Michelle Tue, 18 Oct 2011 12:00:33 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/?p=547#comment-16360 Finally I found a post on this interesting topic, but it was not easy. Are You making any SEO for your blog? Finally I found a post on this interesting topic, but it was not easy. Are You making any SEO for your blog?

]]> Comment on From blogging to public speaking by Petra http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/08/21/from-blogging-to-public-speaking/comment-page-1/#comment-16359 Petra Thu, 13 Oct 2011 20:23:06 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/?p=547#comment-16359 I'm glad that i found Your post. Good reading, gives more to think about this... Thanks! I’m glad that i found Your post. Good reading, gives more to think about this… Thanks!

]]> Comment on From blogging to public speaking by Nadia http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/08/21/from-blogging-to-public-speaking/comment-page-1/#comment-16358 Nadia Mon, 10 Oct 2011 13:14:10 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/?p=547#comment-16358 I found this post very interesting. For sure I will create similiar on my Blog, can I link to Your blog then? I found this post very interesting. For sure I will create similiar on my Blog, can I link to Your blog then?

]]> Comment on The first step to change! by roger http://www.reason4smile.com/2007/11/27/the-first-step-to-change/comment-page-1/#comment-16356 roger Fri, 09 Sep 2011 20:42:13 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/2007/11/27/the-first-step-to-change/#comment-16356 hey buddy i'm impressed..! but these things i have been learning from my elders since childhood,where is newest thoughts...? hey buddy i’m impressed..! but these things i have been learning from my elders since childhood,where is newest thoughts…?

]]> Comment on The three steps of being extraordinary by darshan http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/02/18/the-three-steps-to-be-an-extraordinary-person/comment-page-1/#comment-16355 darshan Mon, 05 Sep 2011 08:58:37 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/02/18/the-three-steps-to-be-an-extraordinary-person/#comment-16355 i hv lots of learn from here n i know dat i will tak it on my self to become an exra ordinary person..cozz i have been chalenge my self dat 1 day i ll do smthng...i realyyyyyy lov to read above statussssssssssssssssssssssssssss........... i hv lots of learn from here n i know dat i will tak it on my self to become an exra ordinary person..cozz i have been chalenge my self dat 1 day i ll do smthng…i realyyyyyy lov to read above statussssssssssssssssssssssssssss………..

]]> Comment on Dating Introvert: Men’s not-to-do list in getting a date by Son Goku http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/02/21/dating-introvert-what-men-should-not-do-to-get-a-date/comment-page-1/#comment-16352 Son Goku Tue, 02 Aug 2011 22:55:29 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/02/21/dating-introvert-what-men-should-not-do-to-get-a-date/#comment-16352 I'm with Phil on this one. A lot of this advice is the same rhetoric you find in seduction community circles. Slogans like "Be more Alpha", or "Get yourself out there.", "Agressive, Agressive, Agressive!", "Women love confidence" ect. This is why my mantra about the dating game is the same as in the movie Wargames: "The only winning move is not to play." And Sherri, you admit that women have come far in 30 years. How far is that if they still expect men to do the asking 100% of the time. You can't have it both ways. Now I know why so many American men choose not to date American women. I’m with Phil on this one. A lot of this advice is the same rhetoric you find in seduction community circles. Slogans like “Be more Alpha”, or “Get yourself out there.”, “Agressive, Agressive, Agressive!”, “Women love confidence” ect. This is why my mantra about the dating game is the same as in the movie Wargames: “The only winning move is not to play.”
And Sherri, you admit that women have come far in 30 years. How far is that if they still expect men to do the asking 100% of the time. You can’t have it both ways. Now I know why so many American men choose not to date American women.

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