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		<title>By: Study Matrix Blog - Success Secrets of Achievement &#124; Mind Map</title>
		<link>http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/10/how-to-be-successful-uniquely-yours/comment-page-1/#comment-15297</link>
		<dc:creator>Study Matrix Blog - Success Secrets of Achievement &#124; Mind Map</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2008 11:28:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Robert A.</title>
		<link>http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/10/how-to-be-successful-uniquely-yours/comment-page-1/#comment-9369</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert A.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2008 15:42:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Chris, that&#039;s a good message, thank you for sharing that! 
The point of view that you share has some valid point... but I do not think that our potential is unlimited. I believe we all have limitation... not all of us can sing well, dance well. We all have strength and limitation...

That&#039;s the matter of putting realistic goal in your life. we all need to examine our strength, passion and know ourselves. The purpose and goal in our life is within our reach. We need an effort but it&#039;s within our reach.

I guess the Craig Harper&#039;s definition shares the same point, success is the point that we can do the most with what we have right now, with our limitation right now...

Thanks for the response.
Robert</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Chris, that&#8217;s a good message, thank you for sharing that!<br />
The point of view that you share has some valid point&#8230; but I do not think that our potential is unlimited. I believe we all have limitation&#8230; not all of us can sing well, dance well. We all have strength and limitation&#8230;</p>
<p>That&#8217;s the matter of putting realistic goal in your life. we all need to examine our strength, passion and know ourselves. The purpose and goal in our life is within our reach. We need an effort but it&#8217;s within our reach.</p>
<p>I guess the Craig Harper&#8217;s definition shares the same point, success is the point that we can do the most with what we have right now, with our limitation right now&#8230;</p>
<p>Thanks for the response.<br />
Robert</p>
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		<title>By: Chris - soupornuts.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris - soupornuts.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2008 21:50:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Robert,

As usual, you have presented a very thought-provoking premise.  Success is a big word with all sorts of implications involving possessions, personal development and self-awareness.  I wrote an article, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.soupornuts.com/define-success-or-excuse-failure-its-up-to-you/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt; Define success or excuse failure - it&#039;s up to you &lt;/a&gt;, in which I stated that success is as unique as the individual.

At one time, I was a very strong proponent of Craig Harper&#039;s definition, but as I&#039;ve gotten a older I&#039;ve come to realize that everyone&#039;s potential is unlimited and therefore unreachable.  Hence, the result is a life of striving.  Though &quot;striving to reach your potential&quot; may be applicable for many as a definition of success (personally, I enjoy the striving), some may be just as happy by &quot;being&quot; without the incessant need to strive.

My point is that success is unique to the individual.  Maybe success is more about your living your passion - I&#039;ll give it some more thought.

&lt;em&gt;Chris - soupornuts.com&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Soupornutscom/~3/268706702/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Is your reality real?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Robert,</p>
<p>As usual, you have presented a very thought-provoking premise.  Success is a big word with all sorts of implications involving possessions, personal development and self-awareness.  I wrote an article, <a href="http://www.soupornuts.com/define-success-or-excuse-failure-its-up-to-you/" rel="nofollow"> Define success or excuse failure &#8211; it&#8217;s up to you </a>, in which I stated that success is as unique as the individual.</p>
<p>At one time, I was a very strong proponent of Craig Harper&#8217;s definition, but as I&#8217;ve gotten a older I&#8217;ve come to realize that everyone&#8217;s potential is unlimited and therefore unreachable.  Hence, the result is a life of striving.  Though &#8220;striving to reach your potential&#8221; may be applicable for many as a definition of success (personally, I enjoy the striving), some may be just as happy by &#8220;being&#8221; without the incessant need to strive.</p>
<p>My point is that success is unique to the individual.  Maybe success is more about your living your passion &#8211; I&#8217;ll give it some more thought.</p>
<p><em>Chris &#8211; soupornuts.com&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Soupornutscom/~3/268706702/' rel="nofollow">Is your reality real?</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Robert A.</title>
		<link>http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/10/how-to-be-successful-uniquely-yours/comment-page-1/#comment-7899</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert A.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2008 23:28:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Tim, thanks for the comment!

@Raymond, I love that quote as well, that really shows that you really need to be teachable

@Cheryl, I like your idea of success, &quot;success is being happy&quot;. We can appreciate our success even today... be gratitude of all that we have right now.

@Al, thanks for your comment! Glad you like it

@Vik, thanks for the link, will check it out!

Cheers,
Robert</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Tim, thanks for the comment!</p>
<p>@Raymond, I love that quote as well, that really shows that you really need to be teachable</p>
<p>@Cheryl, I like your idea of success, &#8220;success is being happy&#8221;. We can appreciate our success even today&#8230; be gratitude of all that we have right now.</p>
<p>@Al, thanks for your comment! Glad you like it</p>
<p>@Vik, thanks for the link, will check it out!</p>
<p>Cheers,<br />
Robert</p>
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		<title>By: Vik</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vik</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2008 21:39:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Check out a book review summary on The Speed of Trust here. I think you&#039;ll enjoy the digestible version:

http://bookreviewsummaries.wordpress.com/2008/03/09/the-speed-of-trust-by-stephen-mr-covey/

&lt;em&gt;Vik&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://bookreviewsummaries.wordpress.com/2008/04/13/the-world-is-flat-by-thomas-l-friedman/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The World Is Flat by Thomas L. Friedman&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Check out a book review summary on The Speed of Trust here. I think you&#8217;ll enjoy the digestible version:</p>
<p><a href="http://bookreviewsummaries.wordpress.com/2008/03/09/the-speed-of-trust-by-stephen-mr-covey/" rel="nofollow">http://bookreviewsummaries.wordpress.com/2008/03/09/the-speed-of-trust-by-stephen-mr-covey/</a></p>
<p><em>Vik&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://bookreviewsummaries.wordpress.com/2008/04/13/the-world-is-flat-by-thomas-l-friedman/' rel="nofollow">The World Is Flat by Thomas L. Friedman</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Al at 7P</title>
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		<dc:creator>Al at 7P</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2008 04:21:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Robert - this was an excellent post about success!  Very well explained.  Plus, it&#039;s applicable to everyone, not only introverts.

&lt;em&gt;Al at 7P&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://7pproductions.com/blog/2008/04/14/are-you-smart-enough-to-change-your-mind/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Are You Smart Enough to Change Your Mind?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Robert &#8211; this was an excellent post about success!  Very well explained.  Plus, it&#8217;s applicable to everyone, not only introverts.</p>
<p><em>Al at 7P&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://7pproductions.com/blog/2008/04/14/are-you-smart-enough-to-change-your-mind/' rel="nofollow">Are You Smart Enough to Change Your Mind?</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Cheryl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cheryl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2008 02:02:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Robert,

I haven&#039;t read Stephen Covey&#039;s latest book, although I&#039;ve read or listened to many of his others. Trust is a main theme throughout all of his writing. Without trust, there is no relationship and hence, no success. In a perfect world we wouldn&#039;t even need to write about it, would we?

Success is being happy (whatever that is)... No, really, it&#039;s not easy! It should be, but it&#039;s not. It&#039;s all the noise in our heads. :)

~Cheryl

&lt;em&gt;Cheryl&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://butwhatnow.com/resources/5-ways-to-get-and-stay-centered/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;5 Ways to Get and Stay Centered&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Robert,</p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t read Stephen Covey&#8217;s latest book, although I&#8217;ve read or listened to many of his others. Trust is a main theme throughout all of his writing. Without trust, there is no relationship and hence, no success. In a perfect world we wouldn&#8217;t even need to write about it, would we?</p>
<p>Success is being happy (whatever that is)&#8230; No, really, it&#8217;s not easy! It should be, but it&#8217;s not. It&#8217;s all the noise in our heads. <img src='http://www.reason4smile.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>~Cheryl</p>
<p><em>Cheryl&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://butwhatnow.com/resources/5-ways-to-get-and-stay-centered/' rel="nofollow">5 Ways to Get and Stay Centered</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Raymond Chua</title>
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		<dc:creator>Raymond Chua</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Apr 2008 10:30:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Robert,

Thanks for sharing your insights about success.

For me, success is living in a happy, wealthy and healthy life.

I love the quote above, from Plato. I often use it in my conversation. :)

&lt;em&gt;Raymond Chua&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://attractingyourgoals.com/beyond-possibilities-partner-equilibristic/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Beyond Possibilities – Partner Equilibristic&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Robert,</p>
<p>Thanks for sharing your insights about success.</p>
<p>For me, success is living in a happy, wealthy and healthy life.</p>
<p>I love the quote above, from Plato. I often use it in my conversation. <img src='http://www.reason4smile.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><em>Raymond Chua&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://attractingyourgoals.com/beyond-possibilities-partner-equilibristic/' rel="nofollow">Beyond Possibilities – Partner Equilibristic</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Tim Brownson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tim Brownson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2008 12:02:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice article Robert. You&#039;ve pulled together some quality material there and put your own spin on it.

&lt;em&gt;Tim Brownson&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://www.adaringadventure.com/blog/wordpress/?p=361&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;10 Surefire Ways To Get A Date&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice article Robert. You&#8217;ve pulled together some quality material there and put your own spin on it.</p>
<p><em>Tim Brownson&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://www.adaringadventure.com/blog/wordpress/?p=361' rel="nofollow">10 Surefire Ways To Get A Date</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Robert A.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert A.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2008 00:41:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow Evan, your insights is really deep. Your comments always make me think. I definitely agree with you, wisdom is not only saying what you are, but also saying what we are not. It&#039;s both the courage to change and serenity to accept. And I believe results and the highest rewards of self improvement is not what we get, but what we have become.

As John Maxwell put it, when it comes to your character, work on your weakness. When it comes to your talent, go with your strength. 

Thanks for the thoughts,
Robert</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow Evan, your insights is really deep. Your comments always make me think. I definitely agree with you, wisdom is not only saying what you are, but also saying what we are not. It&#8217;s both the courage to change and serenity to accept. And I believe results and the highest rewards of self improvement is not what we get, but what we have become.</p>
<p>As John Maxwell put it, when it comes to your character, work on your weakness. When it comes to your talent, go with your strength. </p>
<p>Thanks for the thoughts,<br />
Robert</p>
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