Comments on: Let’s have disagreement! http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/ Turning limitation into advantages. Helping introvert to be successful. Sat, 05 Jul 2008 09:34:56 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: How to be successful, uniquely yours : Reason-4-Smile Weblog http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-6009 How to be successful, uniquely yours : Reason-4-Smile Weblog Thu, 10 Apr 2008 16:09:17 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-6009 [...] lead us to read more books, learn from a role model/pacer, attend seminars, listen to the Podcast, start speaking our opinion and disagreement to learn, and many others. All what you need is hunger, and then all the teacher will appear… When the [...] [...] lead us to read more books, learn from a role model/pacer, attend seminars, listen to the Podcast, start speaking our opinion and disagreement to learn, and many others. All what you need is hunger, and then all the teacher will appear… When the [...]

]]> By: healthranker.com http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-5635 healthranker.com Wed, 09 Apr 2008 09:07:53 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-5635 <strong>Let’s have disagreement! : Reason-4-Smile Weblog...</strong> Do you embrace disagreement? Be grateful of disagreement, take it as a chance to strengthen your opinion, learn more about the other person's point of view. Take it as an opportunity to learn instead of to win.... Let’s have disagreement! : Reason-4-Smile Weblog…

Do you embrace disagreement? Be grateful of disagreement, take it as a chance to strengthen your opinion, learn more about the other person’s point of view. Take it as an opportunity to learn instead of to win….

]]> By: Robert A. http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-5377 Robert A. Tue, 08 Apr 2008 15:11:14 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-5377 Hi Tom, thanks a lot for your message. I think intense debater put too much emotion, they're carried away by their pained body (as Eckhart Tolle put it) I believe that understanding their motive/perspective before stating our disagreement will help! Thanks, Robert Hi Tom, thanks a lot for your message. I think intense debater put too much emotion, they’re carried away by their pained body (as Eckhart Tolle put it) I believe that understanding their motive/perspective before stating our disagreement will help!
Thanks,
Robert

]]> By: Tom Stine http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-5047 Tom Stine Mon, 07 Apr 2008 21:57:08 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-5047 I used to love to debate. It was fun to go back and forth on an issue. But I find I need mellow people to debate with these days. Intense debaters are, well, intense! :-) <em>Tom Stine's last blog post..<a href='http://tomstine.com/what-is-spirituality-really/' rel="nofollow">So What is Spirituality? Really.</a></em> I used to love to debate. It was fun to go back and forth on an issue. But I find I need mellow people to debate with these days. Intense debaters are, well, intense! :-)
Tom Stine’s last blog post..So What is Spirituality? Really.

]]> By: Bruce from Brucisms.com http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-5006 Bruce from Brucisms.com Mon, 07 Apr 2008 21:02:02 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-5006 Robert, The timeliness of this article is impeccable! I have been debating for several weeks about including "Rants" on my site. I was wary of creating a "negative" connotation; however, I decided that as emotional beings we should have a forum for constructive discourse on varying opinions. I published my first Rant today! (You must be mind reading again...) :) Robert,

The timeliness of this article is impeccable! I have been debating for several weeks about including “Rants” on my site. I was wary of creating a “negative” connotation; however, I decided that as emotional beings we should have a forum for constructive discourse on varying opinions.

I published my first Rant today!

(You must be mind reading again…) :)

]]> By: Robert A. http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-4955 Robert A. Mon, 07 Apr 2008 14:41:44 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-4955 Hi Chris, thanks for adding in that point =) I do think so! Many times the comment given by my readers make me think more about why I have a certain opinion. That usually influence me to have an opinion that can embrace both opinion, which I think is really a better opinion. We're really able to learn more from disagreement! =) Hi Chris, thanks for adding in that point =) I do think so! Many times the comment given by my readers make me think more about why I have a certain opinion. That usually influence me to have an opinion that can embrace both opinion, which I think is really a better opinion. We’re really able to learn more from disagreement! =)

]]> By: Robert A. http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-4954 Robert A. Mon, 07 Apr 2008 14:36:08 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-4954 Yup, I think it's important to state our disagreement without the judgment attitude. That will only hurt the other person. You can try to find out what it is about, or ask them before stating that disagreement. Yup, I think it’s important to state our disagreement without the judgment attitude. That will only hurt the other person. You can try to find out what it is about, or ask them before stating that disagreement.

]]> By: Robert A. http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-4953 Robert A. Mon, 07 Apr 2008 14:31:41 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-4953 Thanks Raymond! =) Thanks Raymond! =)

]]> By: Robert A. http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-4952 Robert A. Mon, 07 Apr 2008 14:30:53 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-4952 Thanks Evan, you have a good point. Only when things matter, we should work on our disagreement. John Maxwell also share the same thing, working on disagreement takes much effort, not every disagreement worth this effort. Thanks for adding in to the discussion. Robert Thanks Evan, you have a good point. Only when things matter, we should work on our disagreement. John Maxwell also share the same thing, working on disagreement takes much effort, not every disagreement worth this effort.
Thanks for adding in to the discussion.
Robert

]]> By: Chris - soupornuts.com http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-4876 Chris - soupornuts.com Mon, 07 Apr 2008 10:53:34 +0000 http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/04/05/lets-have-disagreement/#comment-4876 Hi Robert, I'd like to add that debate allows us to learn of the weaknesses of our arguments or beliefs (of the weaknesses of how we have expressed those beliefs). Once we know these weaknesses, we can then strengthen our argument or embrace more study to learn of alternative views. Another thought provoking article. <em>Chris - soupornuts.com's last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/Soupornutscom/~3/265374901/' rel="nofollow">Surviving cancer ignites passion for helping others</a></em> Hi Robert,

I’d like to add that debate allows us to learn of the weaknesses of our arguments or beliefs (of the weaknesses of how we have expressed those beliefs). Once we know these weaknesses, we can then strengthen our argument or embrace more study to learn of alternative views.

Another thought provoking article.

Chris - soupornuts.com’s last blog post..Surviving cancer ignites passion for helping others

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