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		<title>By: Robert A.</title>
		<link>http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/02/08/being-extraordinary-being-an-agent-of-change/comment-page-1/#comment-481</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert A.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2008 07:29:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Michelle,
Yes, as what your blog message, we need to unleash the divine purpose we have, we&#039;re created to shine, for God, and for others to see!

I second your opinion that many times we&#039;re afraid to be considered as arrogant or selfish when we shine, but in fact, it actually will inspire others to shine as well! 

Thanks for adding in your thoughts!
Robert</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Michelle,<br />
Yes, as what your blog message, we need to unleash the divine purpose we have, we&#8217;re created to shine, for God, and for others to see!</p>
<p>I second your opinion that many times we&#8217;re afraid to be considered as arrogant or selfish when we shine, but in fact, it actually will inspire others to shine as well! </p>
<p>Thanks for adding in your thoughts!<br />
Robert</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle Vandepas</title>
		<link>http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/02/08/being-extraordinary-being-an-agent-of-change/comment-page-1/#comment-454</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle Vandepas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 13:54:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robert,
.....Dare to shine, dare to change!.....
I think most of us are afraid to shine.  We all have immense light within, but hold back for fear of coming across to arrogant or selfish.  When we are living our lives for ourselves, shining our light and sharing it,  then we can give so completely that the opposite happens, .. we become the light - charismatic and inspiring.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robert,<br />
&#8230;..Dare to shine, dare to change!&#8230;..<br />
I think most of us are afraid to shine.  We all have immense light within, but hold back for fear of coming across to arrogant or selfish.  When we are living our lives for ourselves, shining our light and sharing it,  then we can give so completely that the opposite happens, .. we become the light &#8211; charismatic and inspiring.</p>
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		<title>By: Robert A.</title>
		<link>http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/02/08/being-extraordinary-being-an-agent-of-change/comment-page-1/#comment-443</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert A.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2008 16:14:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Evan, I agree with your statement that most of the fight can actually be reconciled, When people fight, deep inside their hatred is actually fear, its core might be love and it&#039;s important to understand that if the people is willing to communicate deeper, revealing their fear and needs, the fight can actually be resolved.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts here!
Robert</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Evan, I agree with your statement that most of the fight can actually be reconciled, When people fight, deep inside their hatred is actually fear, its core might be love and it&#8217;s important to understand that if the people is willing to communicate deeper, revealing their fear and needs, the fight can actually be resolved.</p>
<p>Thanks for sharing your thoughts here!<br />
Robert</p>
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		<title>By: Evan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Evan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2008 01:21:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have been an agent of change for individuals on occasion.

It has mostly been by helping the person encounter themselves, especially the parts of themselves that want to fight each other.  With enough support these can usually be reconciled.  Which is a big change.

Wrapping the hard with the soft I have heard called a &quot;compliment sandwich&quot; - that is three remarks: one compliment, the feedback on what is difficult, then another compliment.  This image helps me keep it in mind.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been an agent of change for individuals on occasion.</p>
<p>It has mostly been by helping the person encounter themselves, especially the parts of themselves that want to fight each other.  With enough support these can usually be reconciled.  Which is a big change.</p>
<p>Wrapping the hard with the soft I have heard called a &#8220;compliment sandwich&#8221; &#8211; that is three remarks: one compliment, the feedback on what is difficult, then another compliment.  This image helps me keep it in mind.</p>
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		<title>By: Robert A.</title>
		<link>http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/02/08/being-extraordinary-being-an-agent-of-change/comment-page-1/#comment-433</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert A.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Feb 2008 23:58:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Sol, thanks so much!
Great to know you in the blogosphere as well, I really look forward for your new blog!
Keep me updated!

Thanks so much for all of your encouragement and comments, 
Many times it really touches me and encourage me more to write and share.

Thanks for the inspiration, my friend!
Keep shining too,
Robert</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Sol, thanks so much!<br />
Great to know you in the blogosphere as well, I really look forward for your new blog!<br />
Keep me updated!</p>
<p>Thanks so much for all of your encouragement and comments,<br />
Many times it really touches me and encourage me more to write and share.</p>
<p>Thanks for the inspiration, my friend!<br />
Keep shining too,<br />
Robert</p>
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		<title>By: Sol Lederman</title>
		<link>http://www.reason4smile.com/2008/02/08/being-extraordinary-being-an-agent-of-change/comment-page-1/#comment-431</link>
		<dc:creator>Sol Lederman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Feb 2008 16:55:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robert,

As usual, an inspiring post. What resonates with me most is the part about being an agent of change in the world. I feel that call. In particular, my inner voice is telling me to write more, to share my story. There&#039;s a new blog that&#039;s beginning to percolate - that&#039;s about conveying something very important that I have learned. I&#039;ll let you know about the blog when I get it launched.

Robert - we&#039;ve never met and yet I consider you to be among my friends. Keep writing, my friend.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robert,</p>
<p>As usual, an inspiring post. What resonates with me most is the part about being an agent of change in the world. I feel that call. In particular, my inner voice is telling me to write more, to share my story. There&#8217;s a new blog that&#8217;s beginning to percolate &#8211; that&#8217;s about conveying something very important that I have learned. I&#8217;ll let you know about the blog when I get it launched.</p>
<p>Robert &#8211; we&#8217;ve never met and yet I consider you to be among my friends. Keep writing, my friend.</p>
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		<dc:creator>bloggingzoom.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Feb 2008 15:35:37 +0000</pubDate>
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