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From blogging to public speaking

Posted by Robert A. on Thursday, August 21st, 2008

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Blogging made me better with written words; but how about spoken words or public speaking?
I experienced that quite some time ago, even before I took my break and my holiday. That night I had church small group gathering and I was not in the mood of attending. It is the men’s [...]

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If only your life is a Wordpress project

Posted by Robert A. on Saturday, August 9th, 2008

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Do you dare to make your life an open source project?
Imagine your life is an open source project… Let’s say a Wordpress project!
People will be able to download it from internet, check out your PHP source codes, modifying it with all sorts of plugins and themes, and making it a custom-made [...]

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Happiness in success journey

Posted by Robert A. on Monday, August 4th, 2008

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Do you enjoy your success journey?
As promised, Reason-4-Smile got a new theme. The new tagline is “Happiness in Success Journey”. It’s pretty much inspired by Joyce Meyer with her program, Enjoying Everyday Lives. I wanted to do the same thing, or I should say the mini version with this blog: sharing and [...]

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Being interesting

Posted by admin on Monday, October 29th, 2007

What makes a person interesting? Not necessarily the topic he/she is talking about. It’s more of ‘how’ than ‘what’, more of how he talk, how he communicate his/her ideas instead of the topic he is speaking about.

Today I want to share from a book I’m reading right now, in fact I’m studying it. It’s not an inspirational book, it is a technical, IT-related book. I’ve been thinking all along, whether anything that I can share about the book I’m reading right now in my blog. Of course I don’t want to share technical stuff in this blog, otherwise this blog will be reason2program or reason2code instead of reason2smile =)

The book is one of the Head First series (can be checked in Amazon here) and I study this book for a certification I plan to take next month. Something very interesting about this book was that how it’s been structured not in a conventional way, a way that the topic becomes very interesting and easier for readers to understand.

Some of the things I learned from the author of the books that I find it might be useful for us to become more interesting:

  • Clear about your goal and your audiences’ purpose.
    • The authors make it very clear that the book was made to help readers pass the certification exam
  • Research about your audiences, helping them to reach their purpose.
    • The authors have done research on how the brain works, to enable reader to learn and memorize better
  • Media to grab attention
    • The authors use a lot of pictures, some even made in a comical way to grab the readers’ attention
  • Relating topics, communicate complex concepts to become much simpler
    • The authors relate the difficult topics with something closer to the readers’ world, such as everyday life, poem, movies and acting, story-telling, bar conversation, etc
  • Repetition of the concepts
    • The same concepts was repeated over and over again to emphasize the importance

For more resources on being interesting, you can read the book from Edward de Bono, How to Be More Interesting, available @ Amazon.com here. It has a lot of different techniques and exercises to relate topics to make conversation more interesting.

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3 Responses to “Being interesting”

  1. first other Says:

    Being interesting? Sometimes I feel like I’m so boring, then I finally talked to someone and shared with them, my story… who I was. And to my disbelief, they thought it was fascinating so they suggested I write about it.

    I just bought that book, thanks!

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